Being single is actually quite fun!
But, this is new for me. I have been in 4 long relationships since I was 19. The first, with the one who I later married after 4 years, and the marriage ended 3 years later. Seven years of my life... now when you're 31, that's a long long time.
The second, third and fourth, lasted 6 months, 2 years and a year in that order. So for about 7 or 8 months since I was 19 I have dated. The rest, I've randomly been on dates and met people in between.
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So, now I am feel sort of stuck. Dating. How it works, what doesn't work, what guys want, what they don't want.
What I do know...1. I know the basic rule - be yourself. I do that well, or at least I think I do!2. What I want... that I know. I have at least managed to figure that out & what I don't want!
The rest? Remains a mystery to me.Right now, I'm quite happy to just *be* and to enjoy life in the single lane. I love my life, I love my career, I am passionate about digital media, and I have amazing friends. I always have something to do... fabulous places to go to and awesome people to go with!
But seeing as I seem to be meeting some fun and interesting people... do you have any tips for a singleton?