I was having a conversation with a friend today, about this. She has been dating this guy for a while, but there are certain things that are so different about them, that they've been arguing about, that have been making them both doubt the relationship. So many things about the relationship are great, but things that make her happy and that she wants in a relationship are not there. But he's a great guy she says. There so much she loves about him. How much is she willing to give up, how much is he willing to concede, how much are they both willing to compromise of themselves for the other, to be together.
It's an interesting place to be in, but one thing I've realised is that we don't trust our gut and we don't follow our intuition, because we so badly want the person we love to be everything that we want in a relationship.
How does the perfect feeling feel?
Relationships have their challenges. They are there to help us grow, see other parts of our selves, and find out things about what we want, and don't want. One thing I've learnt in life, is that no matter what is meant to be in your life, it will come your way, at the right time.