Then I watched an episode of "How I met your mother"... and learnt this... The great moments of your life... won’t necessarily be the things you do, They’ll also be the things that happen to you Now I’m not saying that you can’t take action to affect the outcome of your life, You have to take action And you will But never forget That on any day You can step out the front door And your whole life can change forever You see, the universe has a plan And that plan is always in motion A butterfly flaps its wings And it starts to rain It’s a scary thought But its also kind of wonderful All these little parts of the machine Constantly working Making sure that you end up exactly where you are supposed to be Exactly when you are supposed to be there The right place at the right time And as a result – your life will never be the same
But, this is new for me. I have been in 4 long relationships since I was 19. The first, with the one who I later married after 4 years, and the marriage ended 3 years later. Seven years of my life... now when you're 31, that's a long long time.
The second, third and fourth, lasted 6 months, 2 years and a year in that order. So for about 7 or 8 months since I was 19 I have dated. The rest, I've randomly been on dates and met people in between.
So, now I am feel sort of stuck. Dating. How it works, what doesn't work, what guys want, what they don't want.
What I do know...
1. I know the basic rule - be yourself. I do that well, or at least I think I do! 2. What I want... that I know. I have at least managed to figure that out & what I don't want!
The rest? Remains a mystery to me.
Right now, I'm quite happy to just *be* and to enjoy life in the single lane. I love my life, I love my career, I am passionate about digital media, and I have amazing friends. I always have something to do... fabulous places to go to and awesome people to go with!
But seeing as I seem to be meeting some fun and interesting people... do you have any tips for a singleton?
sometimes... I find myself not quite knowing which direction to take... and then, suddenly it all falls into place...
everything comes together it all makes sense
and on the first day of spring, where everything is... perfectly synchronised and when you feel like the world was against you you see that it was conspiring for you and there are new horizons because the sunset has changed and the flowers bloom and the air smells different and you decide to leave the anchoring past behind and walk towards what you want what you desire what you deserve
and at the end of the perfect day, when all the rules have been broken and you didn't know what the outcome would be the perfect sunset greets you
and in that moment, you know that everything is as it should be.