my thoughts on relationships...

some relationships are like this: you order champagne, you get hunters dry...& you think to yourself...well, it's not a black label, so you enjoy it while it lasts...

i say about relationships: if you order champagne & you get the hunters dry send it back & wait for what you want... the taste of bubbly is worth it!

what are u waiting for?

You're waiting for that magical day when someone makes the connection and recognizes who you really are. Maybe they'll first catch the sparkle in your eye. Or perhaps they'll marvel at your insights and the depth of your spirit. Someone who will help you connect the dots, believe in yourself, and make sense of it all. Someone who will understand you, approve of you, and unhesitatingly give you a leg up so that life can pluck your ready, ripened self from the branch of magnificence. Ahhhhhhhhhhh...

Well, I'm here to tell you, your wait is over. That someone, is you.

(from a note from The Universe)

life...

...Living the life of your dreams is a lot like sailing.

You pick your destination, hoist up your sail, make minor adjustments while the journey is underway, and let the wind do all the hard work.

In other words, imagine the end result, do what little you can, make minor adjustments while the journey is underway, and let me blow your mind.

Does love at first sight exist?

an excerpt from female2female blog interview with me today that I would like to share with you...

I often blog about love, and the irresistible desire to be desired irresistibly… Love at first sight… yes, I do believe it does. It has happened to me more than once….But lasting love… that’s a bit harder. Finding the imperfect person, perfect for you, is true love. And when the breathlessness and the promise of eternal passion and romance and that “inlove” feeling is gone… the inconceivable idea that you could ever be apart is what will hold you together.

“The best love is the kind that awakens the soul and makes us reach for more.” (From the notebook).

love yourself...

love yourself
for no one
can be closer
or share more time
with you

be patient
and kind to yourself

value your attainments
appreciate your gifts

let go of the past
retaining only
it's wisdom

remain aware
for you are now

new

love is...

Love is like a mirror.

When you love others, you become their mirror and they become yours.
Leo Buscaglia

it just took a moment...

and then he looked at her..

and she knew... in that moment,

that she had been looked at...

...like never before.

just be... and be loved...

when you know what you don't want... clarify what you want, and walk towards that... be clear and sure about what you want... honour yourself, be who you are. be adored, be seen as you are, be appreciated in the fullness that you are.

Relationships

Relationships.

There are those that open you up to something new and exotic, those that are old and familiar, those that bring up lots of questions, those that bring you somewhere unexpected, those that bring you far from where you started, and those that bring you back. But the most exciting, challenging and significant relationship of all is the one you have with yourself. And if you can find someone to love the you you love, well, that's just fabulous.

Carrie - Sex&TheCity

enjoy every moment...

like windy mornings, starry skies, and old trees, strawberries

and doorbells; coffee, blue jeans, and summertime...

purring cats, the smell of grass, the sunlight in your eyes...

the song on the radio, the smile from a stranger...

the most important things...

The most important things in life... are not things